How do you make her want to know more about you instead of making her want to run for the hills? Thought you’d never ask. First of all, the basics: Most of all, you need to make sure that you don’t SABOTAGE YOURSELF before you ever have a chance. That means making sure that you don’t talk to much, or show too much interest in her right up front.
Remember the K.I.S.S. philosophy:
Also, NEVER introduce yourself until a woman asks you what your name is first. Sounds interesting? See more on www.flirtdegree.com bro.This creates an IMMEDIATE air of mystery about you and shifts the balance of power. (More on that in a moment…)
Next: You MUST stop asking all those boring “wuss” questions like, “So, what kind of guys do you like?” and “Am I your type?” and “Do you have a boyfriend?” Here’s what I want you to do instead: Immediately challenge her by making her qualify herself to YOU. Ask her, “So, help me out here. I can’t put my finger on it. What makes you so much more interesting and attractive than all these other women?” In fact, take this even further. Give her a fun little “test.”
I’ve said before that one of my favorites is the “Ice Cream Test”.
This is where you walk up to a woman with a serious look on your face and ask her, “Listen, I have to know something. What’s your favorite ice cream?”
She’ll be surprised by the question. She’ll probably answer just out of shock from being approached this way. When she does, roll your eyes and moan, “Ouch. Sorry. If you said Chocolate Mint, I would’ve let you have my number. Of course, if you said Neapolitan, I would have just walked away, so you still have a chance with me.” Either way, make no mistake:
After a long night of tedious pick-up lines, tongue-tied wussies, and Neanderthal come-ons, women *LOVE* to have a fun conversation like this. Plus (ADDED BONUS) this sets the stage… It shows a woman that you’re that rare guy who actually has the confidence BE DIFFERENT and TAKE CONTROL of the situation. That’s HUGE. More on that later.
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